black role models

Black public figures fail us.

The very people many young men and women from the black community look up to don't want to be black themselves .this men abandon their people and heritage for flashy white women. The never ending sport stars see only themselves in their narrow equations.

From celebrated names in many black household, the likes of Henry, fadinan, bent, cambell, dayer, cole and many more black football stars only see beauty in white women and that is it. The hundred and thousands of adoring black youth's fans lost all hope of reviving the little self-respect they are constantly trying to salvage.
What do these men in flash sports cars think? Are they still children in adult body? I don't have any iota of envy for them just because they have heavy bank balances, I pity them. Some of them end up in losing a large junk of their wealth to divorce lawyers. One can site many bitter divorce cases involving this spineless black stars and white girls. Of course they can argue all about I decide who to love and get married with, but do they really decide or is it all arrange for them? Name any house hold black football star hardly he wouldn't have a white girl friend and what message those that send to the young desperate youths? These men cannot see a single attractive black girl among the whole of Britain or wherever they may be. It is disgraceful and self-humiliating.

The young black youths need to change their focus to other groups of blacks in finding a suitable role model .I am not counting the mix race population among the black stars ,since most mix races don't consider themselves black. It is pathetic and disheartening to see the endless black footballers and musicians falling from night clubs with white girls, this people are sending a very bad message and they at least endorsing the racist programming scheme of constant attack on the black image. The image that young people see sticks with them for a long time. This trend continues to the next generation and the racist out there make reference to it.
Some will ask what is all the hype about famous and successful black men getting together with white girls. I will answer them as this, which white successful personality have you even mistaken seen marrying a black woman? Boris Becker did it but he is lights years different from the conventional white males.
I am not attacking racial harmony that will sort itself out if first the black population put their house in order. The patronising terms like integration and assimilation will be effective if first the blacks respect themselves and love each other for real ,marry each other even after attaining success ,only then can racial integration and co-existence prove successful.

The search for fitting role models for young western black youths goes on ,the target group that many feel should have solve the problem are themselves inadequate and lacking self-believe and confidence . What is the real reason for our community backward thinking in this age of abundance thinker among our ranks? From good writers to Politian's, academics, doctors, journalist, accountants, scientist etc yet, we cannot lift ourselves up from the downtrodden level of the social stratum.

How can we give hope to the young and coming black youths? in Britain and America, the question is largely debated among the anchor men/women hardly involving credible personalities that can change the course of the continuous humiliation to our colour .the sleeping giant is still sleeping after many of our ancestors predicted success for our kind .Hear me, the masses of great men and women, we can be the master of our destine, all we need to do is just start to love ourselves.