tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8649688657447656788.post609066877280900678..comments2024-03-05T21:18:51.267-08:00Comments on SUNTOUMANA: Why Women have sole right over a child born in wedlockSUNTOU TOURAYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13736171006533572785noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8649688657447656788.post-65677169696337117502011-04-01T03:56:10.805-07:002011-04-01T03:56:10.805-07:00Sexual pleasure is individualist in nature. If a m...Sexual pleasure is individualist in nature. If a man can journey with his partner with the proper decorum, there will be no case for complaining about how many rounds one performs.<br />You have to bear in mind that, such complaint are in cases where men just go for it instead of following the proper protocol.<br />Islam recommends that, couples be intimate. Our Religion is so wholesome, it didn't leave any stone inturn. The Prophet Muhammad said, before cohabitation, send some greetings to the wife.<br />To understand the advise in our terms it means, be romantic, jovial and never just drop the pants and go for it.<br />Secondly, whether it is tradition that one is looking to or Religion, there are avenues that, people will always try to exploit and your observation happens to be on such cases.<br />Human beings are by nature self interest seekers. We pretend that, we are doing certain things because of friends or family. Traditionally, people use to force their sons to marry certain women and vice verser for women. But the Islamic standpoint is that, marriage is an act between two people (man and woman) on a free will basis. <br /><br />The friends you spoke to are abusing what they see as tradition or religious stipulation. Many of them, if you tell them, The Prophet Muhammad states, they should attend every Juma prayer like today. And that,they should never for any reason abandon their five dialy prayer and be kind, charitable, not harm innocent people with their tongue or private parts etc, they cannot fathamton such. hence, in Mandinka terms, tawtenya lemu (deliberate behvaiours) SuntouAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com